Tony is very close to his mom - which is totally understandable since she was the one who worked odd jobs to raise the kids.  Tony's dad left the family behind strangling for food.  This must be pretty hard on the kids and his wife.  As far as I know, his mother never got remarried.  After the recent breakup with Carina, Tony moved back to live with his mom.  It's probably a temporary solution until he finds another joint to stay.  But that tells you their mother-son relationship is very solid.  If there is one woman Tony loves the most in this world, it's got to be his mom.  Enough said.  

Not much has been said about Tony's younger sister in public.  All I know is that she was married in 1985 and had a son, perhaps she moved to Singapore???  I am not sure. 

These days, after Jacky started his family, they don't see each other as much as they used to.  Back in the early 90s, they are two unmarried guys who liked to hang out in the karaoke bars.  They actually worked together several times in the late 80s - early 90s, playing supporting roles in B-rated films.  But they are quite successful in doing that.  Tony won two Best Supporting Actors Awards from Hong Kong Film Awards, so did Jacky.  If Jacky hasn't given up his film career for music, he could be another accomplished actor like Tony today.

Tony had known Kenny for years, but they never got close as they have now.  I am not sure what started their friendship - maybe they found something in common after a few drinks and talks about how depressing life is about.  (just rambling here)  Kenny is now one of Tony's best friends.  They have spotted going to pubs, and car-racing (model car, not the real ones).   Tony plays golf in Kenny's golf club when he finds time.

Tony and Stephen were very good friends back in the days when they are nobodies.  They got to know each other before entering TVB training school.  We should thank Stephen for inspiring Tony to apply to TVB training school, else he would never turn out to be an actor.   After they get into TVB, their life took quite different path.  Tony was an instant sensation.  But it took almost 8 years before Stephen made it big time.  And looking back today, you wonder about how did they do it.  Determination and persistence is apparently the key to success,  and nothing is yours forever - success comes and goes.  To stay on top, you have to push yourself constantly to get better.  But frankly, they should consider themselves lucky - many people have dreams of becoming an actor, only special few made it this far, and much less stayed as long as they had.   Nowadays, Tony and Stephen have their own sets of friends they hang out. 

Tony's first sweetheart - on paper at least - he had one or two girlfriends before Margie, but that's something he never talked about.   What's so special about Margie Tsang?  Tony & Margie broke up three times, but each time they came back for each other.  An ambitious and career-minded Tony had little time for Margie and it's only their love that kept them together for all those years.  From the day they got to know each other to the days they parted, the high drama was played on a public display and chronicled in every gossip magazines.  Come to think about it, all throughout Tony's professional life, his love story is often the headline news more so than the films he is in.   Though not a desirable spotlight, but I guess he should be thankful people are interested in him.  Fame and fortune is really a double wedged sword I guess.

Kitty fell in love with Tony during New Heavenly Sword and Dragon Sabre (1986).  It's one of those Tony & Margie cooling off periods.  Their love affair lasted only a year.  But it's also the talk of the town since NHSDS was well-received.  The unfortunate end of their romance has much to do with the irresponsible and irrational behavior of Tony.  But you can't hope something to work if it's never meant to be.  Tony's heart is with Margie.  He went back to her after Police Cadet 1988.

Tony's partner for over 18 years. They are not married yet. While this partnership has been rocky at times, it's sustaining and growing against all odds.